I often hear that it doesn’t matter what you look like or how you dress, that you can still talk to any woman you’d like. And I agree – in fact while I was growing up I had this Cousin who would wear track pants & a white marina (what some of you might know as a ‘beater”) while chilling on the stoop & holla at girls. Women actually. In business suits. And you know what? He’d get them. Their numbers but more they’d fawn over him as he spoke. Of course this same cousin was a pretty good looking guy and was exceptionally confident. And he was the exception.
You can do lots of things in this world, I mean you can get out your car & pet the animals on safari but it’s just not the best idea.
With all the things that you cannot control in life the one thing you can control is yourself. You can control how you feel, what you do, what your habits are and what you look like. Now you cannot control whether you area 5’6” or 6’5” but you can control what you do with whatever you got.
That’s the first reason I strongly advocate working out – because it gives you an edge. I’m not saying it guarantee’s any woman will talk to you but it won’t hurt your chances.
The second reason I advocate working out is that is creates a habit in your life of discipline and the ability to stick with something even when it is tough. To create success in physical training you need to have a goal, be able to manage and measure that goal, have a plan to reach that goal and then persevere in your plan, manage that plan, tweak that plan and continue to persevere until you reach your goal.
Working out and gaining results will teach you something that anyone who trains for a significant period of time has learned – there is nothing more motivating that results. It’ll also give you the confidence that comes from building something with commitment and hard work.
Want some tips? Check out the workout videos it the fitness section.
But here’s one of vital importance. If you do nothing you will get nothing. Whatever you put in you will get out. So put your whole self in and enjoy what’ll happen.
Good luck,
Mark Sparks
